Feeling well isn’t the whole picture
Many sexually transmitted infections (STIs) have no symptoms. Testing is how you find out whether you have an infection; appearance, trust, and feeling healthy cannot answer that question.
Ask about the right test at the right time
A sexual health professional can advise which tests you need and when. Testing too early after an exposure can miss an infection. Tell them when the contact happened and ask whether you need a repeat test.
Tests may involve urine, blood, or swabs. If you have symptoms, a partner has an STI, or you are worried about a recent exposure, seek advice promptly rather than waiting for a routine screening date.
Make it a shared conversation
Try: ‘I’d like us to talk about testing and protection before we have sex.’ You can ask what was tested, when, and whether there have been new partners since.
Condoms reduce the risk of many STIs. If one breaks or slips off, seek prompt advice about STI care and, if relevant, emergency contraception.
TAKE THIS WITH YOU
Testing is an act of care, not a judgement about someone’s character. A clinician can help you make a plan for your situation.